Valentines Project

To start off the month of February. I think I'm going to write my "future wife" a love letter for the entire month of February 2012. I am single at the moment. I dream of having a family one day. That dream starts with me. The wife has to be pursued daily. I want to write a story line. My ambition in life is to not make my life boring. Like to dream of having the next best car, or get a high earning job, or have the same days every day. Let's make this interesting.

Let's make this interesting. In these letters there's character. First, there'd be a character, ME! Then the character would want something ie. Jesus, her, ice cream, a house, etc. Then the character has to over an enormous amount of conflict in order to get whatever they want. Then they get it! That's it. That's the recipe to a good story. I can write these letter, but I have to live it out when the time comes.

The things people 'like' these days are boring, shallow, and plain. I want to focus on sacrifice, risk, commitment, and love. I want something to happen and envision it. Time to take control of my life and make it more interesting and meaningful. I'm going to live it as a story. The conflicts that I face isn't something that I dread, it's something I welcome. Relationships has unlimited amounts of hills to climb and joy to dive to. I want to love my "future wife" to the best of my ability. God doesn't want us to be alone. He is always present in our lives even when life is too much to handle. I don't want to be alone in my golden age. I am content to be single for now.

So in the next 29 days.. I will be writing a story, a love story to my surely be wonderful future wife. I don't know who she is, perhaps she knows who I am. Perhaps I already know her. God only knows. I am just in great awe that God made men a companion in a woman. He doesn't want us to be alone. Everyday's a ministry. Leggo!