Lately, I've been sharing my broom to other ordinary homo sapiens out there. I'm that guy. If you come to me for advice or help to make your date, your crush, or your significant other blush I guarantee a spark. Of course with different personalities and intentions I keep a close eye to every individual. Of course not everyone gets the prime rib of ideas for a date, nor do I serve to everyone. I look for genuine people with solid core values. I give them the floor plan and the play, if executed correctly can lead to a beautiful journey.
Now I'm not saying I have the right broom to sweep any woman. There's no such thing as the perfect strategy on attracting the opposite sex. We're made to like each other. Boys are suppose to like girls and girls are suppose to like guys back. Dudes, girls like to be pursued. Gals, boys like to be affirmed. There's no recipe for perfection because there's no such thing as perfect. It could come close to saying just as perfect, but in every situation there's always at least a very small flaw or a lack of awesome. And that's okay. I've learned that to really enjoy someone is to really enjoy them even if they're miserable and awful. I see guys and girls doing it the wrong way, and I see guys mistreating girls and I see girls who are unappreciative of guys.
The list of epic dates, and ideas to draw someone in is in a box and I'm slowly giving the secret recipes to those who could use it or asking. I usually keep these ideas and scripts in a secret box and unleash them when the time comes for me to go on my own trek, but I figured that's just selfish and who would knew if my time to trek would come. Time to spread the love, and there's unlimited of that. "Life is not the amounts of breath you take, it's the moments that take your breath away." It makes me happy to see a friend or someone happy because I'm giving them great ideas. As long as I see a potential happy ending, then I'm all for it. The only thing that would probably take me back from helping someone is if they're after someone that I'm also after for. However, I'd make that sacrifice if he's a really good friend of mine. I've done it before, I know how it feels. It's not the greatest, but I'm willing to take a bullet from my own gun.
The cases that I'm working on right now are good. I'm not attracted to whoever they're after for, plus only two cases are around my age. The others are either younger, or older. Funny, how I'm putting myself in this juncture. I'm just done "liking" girls at the moment. I just feel trap and helpless. Now, let's not mourn about that. I'm okay that I'm not dating anyone, I think it's good that I'm not dating around either. So instead, let's flourish other people's desire to date and be in a relationship. It'd be so swell to see two awesome Christians to worship together and pray together. I'm planning a friend's date this week and I'm humbled by it. At first I was thinking, this is something I'd do if I was going out. Then I'm not going out with anyone, so go use it. The only way this could go wrong is if he messes it up sometime after this lunch date.
I get a lot of how do I fix things after screwing things up. It's a difficult task to get a second chance. Unless they're willing to adjust then maybe there's hope. I say "adjust" because we can't really change someone. We could modify them and improve people. And sometimes the two just can't dance together. Either he/she keeps stepping on each other's feet, or they're playing the wrong music. It is what it is. Sorry. I'm sure there's someone else out there that's walking at the same pace as you.
"Never lie, steal, cheat, or drink. But if you must lie, lie in the arms of the one you love. If you must steal, steal away from bad company. If you must cheat, cheat death. And if you must drink, drink in the moments that take your breath away."
That's it. I want to help those who want to have moments that can take their breathe away. Something unusual, not ordinary, but spectacular is the plan. I've never been a big fan of the ordinary, plain, and simple dates. It could be ordinary with something extra ordinary moments. It could be plain with adventure and fun in hand. And it could be simple with a sentimental meaning with good prudence. In the end, no matter what the results would be. There's always going to be "l-o-v-e" in any manner. To love our brother's and sister's as ourselves has to be always in effect. To see someone cry makes us cry, to see someone laugh makes us laugh. We're made for each other and with each other. It's my pleasure to help people, especially the men, to show their like/love interest a splash of ingenuity and an exuberant amount of joy in their hearts.
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